1: Chimera here doesn't have enough shards back to sense her yet.

2: He isn't really "susceptible to feminine charms" and isn't particularly weak-willed, but he also isn't exceptionally strong-willed, either. I'd say she wouldn't be able to make him do something wildly out of character or anything, but he'll be more inclined to listen to/obey her than he would be with most people.